I use Wireguard to setup a private network and selfhost apps on a server at home with running a reverse proxy in the cloud. This setup works great.
Today I'll give https://github.com/juanfont/headscale a try to see whether it simplifies client management
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Connected 2 machines that are on the same LAN. Ping times went down from 20ms to 2ms.